Idan ɗayan dalilan da kuke son yin tafiya shine don sanin da gano sababbin al'adu da al'adu, wannan post ɗin zai zama abin da kuke so. A ciki zaka gani 5 daga cikin hadisai mafi ban mamaki na jima'i cewa zamu iya samun tafiya a duniya. Ba tare da wata shakka ba, ba za mu taɓa yin mamaki ba kuma wannan bayanin da muke bayarwa a ƙasa ƙarin misalinsa ne.
Nepal (Asiya)
A cikin Himalayas akwai ƙananan ƙasashe don rarrabawa kuma wannan shine babban dalilin da yasa sanannun sanannun polyandry na 'yan uwantaka. A Nepal, ‘yan’uwan sun auri mata, ta wannan hanyar, yaran da suke da su ɗaya suna rayuwa a ƙasa ɗaya kuma saboda haka babu buƙatar raba su. Suna kafa iyalai masu haɗin gwiwa kuma dukansu suna zaune wuri ɗaya.
A cewar masanan ilimin halayyar dan Adam, al'adun gargajiya na 'yan uwantaka ba su da yawa, wanda hakan ya sa al'adar a Nepal ta zama abin birgewa da ba a gani sosai a al'adar jima'i har zuwa yanzu.
Niger (Afirka ta Yamma)
A Nijar, kabilar da aka sani da da WodaabeeTunda su yara ne, iyayensu sun riga sun shirya aure tare da dan uwan na jiki. Koyaya, sau ɗaya a shekara, akwai wata al'ada wacce aka sani da Bikin Gerewol na shekara-shekara, inda mazan ƙabilar suka sanya kayan kwalliya kuma suka yi ado (yafi kyau) domin satar sabuwar matar (daga wani mutum).
Ba mu sani ba idan wannan zai ƙare a matsayin “rosary of alfijir”, daga mummunan zuwa mummunan, ko watakila a cikin wannan “fashin” sun nuna halin ɗabi’a fiye da yadda yawancin mutanen Yammacin duniya suke. Amma aƙalla aiki ne na musamman a duniya (ko kuma aƙalla, cewa a yi bikin kuma a bayyana shi ga jama'a).
Iran (Asiya)
A Iran, duk da hukuncin Allah wadai da ake yi a wajen aure, akwai wani irin "Auren wucin gadi", wanda ma'aurata zasu iya nema, tare da dalilin kawai iya kwanciya kafin yin aure. Har yanzu, akwai iyakoki da yawa: ma'aurata za su iya yin sanannun "mishan" a tsaye, yayin da suke ganin yanayin canzawa koyaushe a cikin hanyar ƙasƙantar da mutum.
Ana yin wannan "auren na ɗan lokaci" a cikin biki kuma tare da kwangila wanda zai ƙayyade lokacin da aka tsayar don yin auren wucin gadi da aka faɗi. Daga nan ne kawai za su bi dokokin Musulunci.
Papua (Afirka)
A cikin kabilar Kasar SambiaA Papua (New Guinea), lokacin da yaran suka cika shekaru 7, ana ɗauke su zuwa wani gari inda maza kawai ke zaune. Za su zauna a wurin har sai sun kai shekara 17 ba tare da yin wata hulɗa da mata ba. A cikin shekaru 10 da yaran nan suka zauna daban, suna koyon shuka, tattarawa, farautar dabbobi har ma da fada a tsakaninsu. Amma ba haka ba ne kawai, don ta'azantar da su, kuma a cewarsu, don juya su zuwa ga maza suna sanya su yin amai da rake suga, suna huda fatarsu kuma suna sanya hanci ya zub da jini; amma aikin "jima'i" wanda ya shafe mu a cikin wannan labarin a yau kuma wanda ya fi jan hankalin mu, shine an tilasta su sha maniyyi na manya don tsammanin iya samar da nasu da ƙarfafa su.
Da zarar an dauke su zuwa gari tare da matansu, suna ci gaba da zub da jini a hanci har ma ana tilasta musu su sha jinin hailar matansu ...
Haiti
A Haiti, a cikin watan Yuli, ana yin wasu al'adu masu ban sha'awa a cikin ruwa na Saut D'Eau wanda ke da matsayin mai ba da labari Baiwar Allah. Ibada ce ta voodoo don jan hankalin mutane a cikin duniyar soyayyar da maza da mata suke kwance tsirara suna walwala cikin laka haɗe da jinin dabbobin da aka yanka da kawunan shanu da awaki.
Idan kun halarci wannan al'adar, zaku ga kyawawan wuraren haɗari wanda rikice-rikice tsakanin baƙi ya fi kowa.
Da zarar an san duk waɗannan ayyukan jima'i, shin baƙon ku a gare ku ko kuwa kun riga kun san da wanzuwar su? Shin kun san wasu da yawa waɗanda har ma sun fi ban mamaki waɗannan da muka gani a yau? Idan haka ne zamu so mu hadu dasu. Kuna iya barin sharhi a ƙasa.