I-Melika lilizwekazi elikhulu, elahlukileyo labantu bomthonyama kunye nabaphambukeli, kokubini emantla nakwindawo kunye nasezantsi. Kodwa inyani yokuba EUnited States ibelinye lamagunya ehlabathi, yenze "inkcubeko yaseMelika" yafana nenkcubeko yeli lizwe hayi eyelizwekazi.
Ingxoxo ecaleni, namhlanje siza kugxila kwi Inkcubeko yaseMelika kunye nayo yonke into okhenketho okanye umphambukeli kufuneka ayazi ngaphambi kokuhamba.
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Yiyo Iriphabliki yomanyano lomanyano equlathe Ama-50 kunye nesithili sombusoInonxweme kwiAtlantic nakwiPacific kwaye imida iCanada emantla neMexico emazantsi. Ukongeza, kukho iziqithi ezihle zaseHawaii kwaye kuzo zombini iPacific kunye noLwandle lweCaribbean zinemimandla engadibaniswanga.
I-United States ingaphantsi koku 9.80 yezigidi zeekhilomitha ezizikwere kunye nabemi ngabantu abangama-331 ezigidi. Abemi bayo bahlukile, imveliso yombiza inyibilikayo ufuduko olukhokelele kuyo ukusukela ngexesha yayiyikoloni yaseYurophu. Isiphelo sabantu bomthonyama sasifana nakwelinye ilizwe laseMelika, uloyiso, ukususwa kwemihlaba yabo kunye nokufa ezandleni zezifo ezivela eYurophu.
Abahambi kunye nabaphambukeli
Ukuhlala ngaphandle kwelizwe lakho ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba ngumceli mngeni kwaye kwangaxeshanye ube namava amahle okufunda. Eyona nto intle kukwazi inkcubeko kwangaphambili, funda, ungene ngaphakathi, uvule intloko ukuze wamkele umahluko.
Xa sithetha nge Inkcubeko yaseMelika Singathetha ngemibandela eliqela: ukwanela, ukuzimela, ukulingana, ukungabikho sikweni, ukugcina ixesha, ukungqala, indawo yabucala kunye nendawo yabucala kunye namasiko athile anento yokwenza nokuziphatha esidlangalaleni, ukudibana nabantu, ukuphuma ukuya kwiindawo zentselo, ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye ukwenza ubuhlobo nabantu baseMelika.
Ngokubhekisele kwi ukwanela Singatsho ukuba lixabiso elihlala liqiniswa yimithombo yeendaba: uzenzele umntu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyinyani, kuba akukho mntu uyenzayo yedwa ngaphandle komxholo, kodwa ixesha elide ingumbono oqinisiweyo. Enye into kukuba ixabiso elininzi libekwe ngexesha, sukuchitha ixeshaokanye engenanjongo, ungasathethi ke ukufika emva kwexesha kwidinga. Ngokufanelekileyo, Ukufika emva kwexesha kukubi kakhulu.
Ngelixa kwezinye iindawo zehlabathi abantu abancinci behlala nabazali babo ngelixa befunda eyunivesithi, ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo apha. Ijonge emazantsi amantla angaphezulu, emva kwesikolo samabanga aphakamileyo abantu abancinci bayalishiya ikhaya labazali, nokuba kungokufunda okanye ukusebenza. Omnye kufuneka zimele kwaye oko kuthathwa njengokuqinisekileyo. Olunye uluvo oluqinisekileyo lunento yokwenza ukulingana, iyantlukwano yenkcubeko eyenziwe leli lizwe uluvo lokuba sisizwe esinamathuba alinganayo kumntu wonke.
Ewe, ewe, enye into enokuxoxwa kodwa kwakhona yingcinga efakwe kwimfundo nakumajelo eendaba. Uluvo lokuba i-United States lilizwe elinamathuba alinganayo kubo bonke aluyekanga ukuphindwa kwiimovie, kumabonwakude nakwiikomikhi. Nangona ithiyori intle kakhulu, sonke kufuneka sibe namathuba afanayo ngaphandle kobuhlanga, inkolo, isini okanye isikhundla kwezoqoqosho, inyani yenye.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngelixa kukho iinkcubeko eziphezulu kakhulu, ndicinga ukuba uluntu lwaseJapan okanye lwaseKorea, umzekelo, Inkcubeko yaseMelika ayikho sesikweni. Abantu bathetha ngokungakhathali, banxibe ngokungakhathali, babize abaphathi babo ngamagama abo, akukho zihlonipho ... Ngokubanzi abantu bavulekile kwaye bathetha phandleUthetha into ayicingayo ngaphandle kokuqaphela kakhulu. Kukuthetha ngokungqalileyo kwaye kunokucaphukisa ezinye iinkcubeko okanye kuzo kuthathwe njengokukrwada. Ngokuchasene noko, xa umntu wasemzini esiya kuthetha okanye ecela into, amaMelika ayabhideka ngayo.
Ngelixa iinkcubeko zaseLatin American zinobuhlobo, zivulekile, zivulekile, Abantu baseMelika bakhetha ukuba indawo yabo ingangeniswanga. Ukuba eLatin America kukho ukwangana okuninzi nokwanga phakathi kwabahlobo kwanabantu ongabaziyo, hayi apha eUnited States. Abakuthandi ukwanga okanye abantu abasondela kakhulu xa bethetha. Isangqa sendawo yobuqu sibanzi kunezinye iinkcubeko.
Kananjalo abakuthandi ukubuzwa malunga nobudala babo, ukuba benza imali engakanani, okanye ukuba balinganisa kangakanani. Imixholo yencoko nabantu abangahlobene okanye abasondeleyo ayihlali ibandakanya usapho, inkolo okanye imiba yezopolitiko. Ke Zeziphi izijekulo ekufuneka ndizigcinile engqondweni ukuba ndiye eUnited States?
Ngokusisiseko: uhlala bajongane emehlweni xa bencokola okanye bexhawulana (Ukususela kwindoda ukuya kwindoda, ukusuka kumfazi ukuya kumfazi kunye nokuxubekile), akunuki kakubi Kuyafana nento yokuba asiyikhathaleli impilo yethu kwaye sigcine umgama wethu, sukungena endaweni yakho.
Kukwajongwa njengokuchubekileyo ukugcina ucango luvulekile ukuba umntu othile adlule, alinde ngomonde emigceni, abaphathe abo banikezela ngenkonzo ngendlela enobungane nangokulinganayo, shiya iingcebiso phantse kuzo zonke iindawo (iinwele, indawo yokupaka, iihotele, iiteksi ...).
Xa siphuma siyokutya nomntu waseMelika kufuneka silungiselele yitya isidlo sangokuhlwa kwangoko. Kuyo yonke i-Latin America isidlo sangokuhlwa sithe cwaka emva kwe-8 okanye 9 ebusuku kodwa hayi apha, ngaphambili. Xa usitya akufuneki ukhawuleze, kufuneka usebenzise i-napkin, ukuba iphakathi kwabahlobo into eqhelekileyo kukuba umntu ngamnye ahlawule eyakhe kwaye ayisiyondawo Ukutya okukhawulezayo kuya kufuneka ushiye i Ingcebiso ye-15%.
AmaMelika asetyenziselwa ukuhamba kwilizwe labo elikhulu. Umsebenzi, wokufunda, zihamba kakhulu amaxesha ngamaxesha kunaye nabani na kuthi. Ke, kuqhelekile ukuba abantu babe ngabantu abalungileyo kwaye bathande ukuncokola nabantu abangabaziyo, abanomdla wokwazi. Kwangelo xesha, kuhlala kusithiwa ezi zizizathu zokuba abantu baseMelika bangahlali benabahlobo ebomini, ngenxa yokuhamba okanye ukutshintsha izifundo esikolweni.
Ukugcina yonke le micimbi engqondweni kunokusinceda ukuba siziqhelanise nexesha esiseUnited States. Okungakumbi ukuba sihlala ixesha elide, sifunda okanye sisebenza. Kudla ngokuthiwa kunxibelelwano lwenkcubeko kukho iimeko ezininzi: enye ye Honeymoon apho yonke into ipholile kwaye inika umdla kwaye inkcubeko entsha intle; omnye umzekelo we uloyikiso lwenkcubeko apho iingxaki zokuqala ziqala ngokuthenga, ikhaya, ezothutho, ulwimi ... zonke ezo zikhokelela ekukhathaleni kwengqondo.
Omnye umzuzu kolu nxibelelwano lwenkcubeko yile useto lokuqala. Okwangoku iingxaki zangaphambili ziqala ukusonjululwa kwaye umntu sele eyazi ukuba yeyiphi ibhasi emayithathe, ahlawule njani le naleya. Mhlawumbi ulwimi alukabikho lula kwaphela, kodwa iziseko ziyaqala ukuhlala kwidiski yengqondo. Ilandelwa lixesha elinzima le ukwahlulwa kwengqondo apho umgama uqala ukulinganisa nosapho kunye nabahlobo kunye nobomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nesizungu.
Kwaye okokugqibela, ukuba ixesha lifikile, ekugqibeleni ukhona umzuzu ukwamkelwa nokudityaniswa apho sele kwenziwe inkqubo yesiqhelo epheleleyo, imikhwa namasiko, ukutya, njl njl. kwamkelwe. Siqala ukuziva sikhululekile. Lo mjikelo uqhelekile kwaye wonke umntu oye wafudukela kwelinye ilizwe uhlala ehamba.