Kutheni kubalulekile ukuhamba abantwana bethu?

Ngubani ongaluthandiyo uhambo? Kuyafakazelwa ukuba uhambo yenye yezona ndlela zonyango zilungileyo xa kufikwa kumba wokulwa noxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo. Siphila kwihlabathi eliphawulwe ngokungxama, ke kufuneka sithathe amanyathelo asivumelayo ukuba simise isingqisho. Kuyo yonke le nto, hamba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuxhamla Ayisiyiyo le nto kuphela, kodwa kukomeleza ubudlelwane neentsapho zethu. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, uhambo kwinkampani luyonwatyelwa kabini, kodwa ukuba sihamba nabantwana bethu siyakuphinda kathathu. Sinethuba lokonwabela Iihotele "Zonke ezibandakanya wonke umntu" kunye nabantwana basimahla yantoni Yonwabele kwaye ulibale malunga nesiqhelo esifunwa sisikolo. Kweli nqaku siza kubalaselisa ukuba kutheni kuluncedo ukuba abantwana bethu bathathe olu hambo.

Ukuzonwabisa kubalulekile kubantwana bethu

Ukuhamba yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokonwabela ubomi. Ndiyabulela koku, sinokufumana izibonelelo zabantwana bethu, kuba bayakhula kwinqanaba lentlalontle kunye neemvakalelo, ukongeza ekwenzeni i sengqondo inoveli ngaphambi kobomi kunye nabanye abantu ababemngqongile.

Ukuba ngaphakathi Ipaki yeIberostar AlcudiaBanethuba lokonwaba nosapho lwabo kwaye baphuhlise iingcinga ezinengqiqo ngakumbi ngelixa befumana izakhono eziya kuba luncedo kwikamva labo. Abazali bahlala nabantwana bethu yonke imihla, ke olu tshintsho alubonwa ngokulula, kodwa inyani kukuba, ngenxa yesigama sabo, sinokukhula siye kufikelela kwinqanaba lokukhula kwabo. Indlela yokudibanisa amava ukuba bazuze kuhambo kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu kuthi. 

Ngombulelo kukhenketho, kuyabonwa kwindlela abantwana bethu abonyusa ngayo umthamo wokujonga, nto leyo ebaluleke kakhulu ekwenziweni kwendima ebonakalayo ekujonganeni nemiceli mngeni ubomi eya kubalungiselela yona. Ukujonga olu tshintsho, akukho mfuneko yokuhamba uhambo olwandle kunye naboKwanele ukushiya isixeko sethu ukuze uzuze kumava ohambo.

Kancinci kancinci ngaphakathi ukuba ukufunda kunye nezo xabiso. Olunye uhambo luya kuba yinkcubeko ngakumbi kunolunye, kodwa inyani kukuba naphi na apho banethuba lokufunda izinto ezintsha. Ulwazis isekwe kwinto enengqiqo njengokupakisha isutikheyisi, ukuthatha uloliwe okanye ukuhlala ehotele, de ube ufunda ukuba nganye yezi zenzo iza nokulungiselela kwangaphambili.

Ngokukwanjalo, banethuba lokuxabisa izinto ezibalulekileyo ezinokufundwa ngohambo oluthathwa rhoqo. Akufanele silibale ukuba ukuhamba kusivumela ukuba sihloniphe abantu abasondeleyo, kuvula iingqondo zethu kwaye kusenza sinyamezele. Ezi zinto ziyafana kubantwana bethu. Baya kufunda ukuhlonipha imigaqo, indalo kwaye baya kuba nomonde ngakumbi, ngelixa bondle ukwazi kwabo okungaphakathi loo nto ibenza bahluke.

Kwelinye icala, baya kuba nethuba lokudibana nabantu abohlukileyo kwesiqhelo, baya kujonga umhlaba omtsha kunye neelwimi ezintsha. Konke oku kuyakwandisa imeko yokuhamba kwabo ngaphakathi kuzo kwaye ngamafutshane, baya kufuna ukwazi iindawo ezintsha. 

Abantwana abathi, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile zobuqu okanye zezoqoqosho, abangakhange bakwazi ukonwabela iihambo, baya kusokola ngenxa yokungazi ukuba bangaziqhelanisa njani kakuhle notshintsho. Ukwengeza, abayi kuba nazo izixhobo bafumana ukusuka ekuhambeni ukuya kujamelana neemeko ezintsha ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba alide lihle ixesha ukuze bafumane zonke iimfundiso ezibabonelelwa ngohambo.

Ukuhamba nabantwana bethu kunezibonelelo kulo lonke usapho

Usapho luyakomelezwa xa luhamba nabantwana. Baza kugubungela isidingo sabo sokuhlala kwiqela kwaye ngenxa yohambo, baya kuba nakho ukomeleza ubudlelwane babo beemvakalelo kunye nabo ngakumbi. Kuya kufuneka sibandakanye abancinci kwizigqibo ezahlukeneyo ngexesha lohambo ukuze sikhuthaze ukuzimela kwabo kunye nenyani yokuba baziva bekhethekile kwaye bexabisekile.

Enkosi kuhambo nabantwana bethu esinako phila imeko yosapho efanayo Ii-anecdotes ezininzi kunye neehambo eziza kuhlala zikhunjulwa. Ungalibali ukuba ukuhamba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokutyala imali kwaye apho ufunda khona kakhulu. Siza kujonga indlela abantwana bethu abayijonga ngayo indlela yokuqola kwaye siza kubona bafumana njani isimilo sabo ngobuninzi beemeko. Konke oku kuyakusivumela ukuba sazi ukuba bunjani ubuntu umntwana wethu ngamnye anabo.

Ke ngoko, ngoku ekubeni sisazi ukuba zeziphi izibonelelo zokuhamba nabantwana, lixesha elifanelekileyo lokujonga imihla kwaye uthathe olo hambo luphupha nabo. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, iya kuba ngamava agcweleyo kufunda, ii-adventures kunye nee-anecdotes ezingasindiswa kuphela kwi-reel yeselfowuni, kodwa ziya kuhlala zikho kwimemori yethu, kwi-retina yethu nakubomi bethu.


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