Izinto eziluncedo zokuhamba emhlabeni

Baninzi abantu abathanda ukuhamba kwihlabathi kwaye banakho ukonwabela imvakalelo yenkululeko onayo ngalo lonke ixesha ufumana iindawo ezintsha. Ukuhamba kwihlabathi kuthetha ukwandisa ingqondo yakho, ulwazi lwakho kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ukufunda kwihlabathi kunye nabantu.  Ukuba kukho into enye oza kukucebisa ngayo wonke umntu, iya kuba kukuhamba ngakumbi.

Andithethi ukuba uya eholideyini kwaye ucwangcise yonke into ukuya kwiinkcukacha zokugqibela, ndithetha ukuthatha uhambo ukuya kwindawo ongazange waya kuyo ngaphambili, ngendlela eguqukayo kwaye bubomi uqobo obukunika amathuba wokuba ukwazi ukufunda izinto ezintsha. Ukuhamba kukunika izibonelelo ezilungileyo umzekelo:

• Inceda ukuba uphathe ngcono ingxaki
• Kukubumba njengomntu
• Uyazazi ezinye iinkcubeko
• Ufunda iilwimi ezintsha

Ukuhamba kumnandi ngeendlela ezininzi, kuyasinceda sive ukujikeleza, kusenza silangazelele ukufumana iindawo ezintsha, iinkcubeko ezinamava, ukutya onokuzama kona, dibana nabantu abatsha. Kodwa uninzi lwethu ngempazamo lucinga ukuba kufuneka silinde de sibe badala ngokwaneleyo ukuba sihlolisise umhlaba. Akukho nto iqhubeka nenyaniso, iya kuhlala ilixesha elifanelekileyo lokuhamba. Ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni? Fumanisa izibonelelo onokuthi ube nazo.

Uya kuzazi ngcono kwaye uya kuba nakho ukulawula ingxaki

Xa uhamba, uya kuba nakho ukuthatha uhambo ngaphakathi kuwe, kuba uya kuba nakho ukuzazi. Ukuhamba kukutyala imali emangalisayo kuwe ongenakukujongela phantsi. Ngelixa ukhenketha uya kuvezwa ngabantu abaninzi, amasiko kunye neendlela zokuphila ngokuqinisekileyo ezinokubonakala zahluke kakhulu kuleyo uyiqhelileyo. Yintoni egqithisile, uya kuvuleleka nakwizimvo ezintsha, kwiindlela ezintsha zokubona umhlaba kunye nobomi, kuya kuqala ukwahluka kuwe. Kuyinto engaphaya kokuqonda ukuba uyaqonda ukuba ufuna ezinye iinjongo ebomini bakho zahluke kakhulu kulezo abantu bahlala benazo- umsebenzi, ikhaya, ikhaya, umsebenzi.

Ukuba uziva ubanjiwe kwiingcinga ezingadibaniyo ezingapheliyo, kuba awuyazi injongo yakho ebomini, awuyazi into ofuna ukuyenza ngobomi bakho, ngomsebenzi wakho okanye ngendlela yakho yemfundo, ke ndikucebisa ukuba thatha uhambo ... uya kumangaliswa ziziphumo engqondweni yakho.

Uyazazi ezinye iinkcubeko

Umhlaba uqulethe inani elikhulu lamazwe kwaye ayingabo bonke abantu abafanayo. Xa uhamba, uya kuba nethuba elihle lokuhlangana nabantu abavela kumazwe ahlukeneyo nakwiindawo ezahlukeneyo. Ebomini, esinye sezona zakhono zibalulekileyo kwezentlalo kukufunda indlela yokunxibelelana kwaye unxibelelane nabanye abantu, nokuba sahluke kwaphela.

Sonke sinendlela yethu yokunxibelelana, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ayizizo zonke ezisebenzayo. Abanye abantu bathanda ukuba nengxaki yokuchaza izimvo zabo ngenxa yokuba izakhono zentlalo aziphuhliswanga ngokupheleleyo. Ukuhamba kunye nokunxibelelana nabantu abahlukeneyo kuya kunceda ukwakha okanye ukuphucula izakhono zentlalo ngomgudu omncinci kakhulu.

Ayizukuhamba kuphela ukuphucula izakhono zonxibelelwano, kodwa ukongeza ekuzithembeni ngokwakho, enkosi kolo nxibelelwano uya kuba nakho ukunxibelelana ngezimvo kunye nezimvo zakho ngokucacileyo kwintetho zakho nokuba abanye abantu bavela kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kukuqonda ngokugqibeleleyo.

Ukulandela umxholo wenkcubeko, kukho iinkcubeko kwihlabathi liphela. Njengomhambi olungileyo kufuneka uyihloniphe inkcubeko yamazwe ohamba kuwo. Ezinye iindawo ziya kuba neenkcubeko ezininzi zale mihla, ngelixa ezinye ziya kuba neenkolelo namasiko.

Xa unokuba namava enkcubeko eyahlukeneyo, iya kuba yimfundo kakhulu kuwe. Abahambi abaninzi bafuna iinkcubeko ezingezizo ezabo ukuze bafunde kubo kwaye bavule iingqondo zabo kwihlabathi elitsha. Unokufunda ukuhlonipha iingcinga zezigidi zabantu emhlabeni. Uyakwazi ukwazi indlela abantu abazibona ngayo kunye nendlela abakubona ngayo, indlela ababona ngayo abantu kunye nendlela abazibona ngayo bekwiqela, inkcubeko inokuchazwa njengeyona ndlela iyonke yobomi, eyenziwe liqela labantu elidlula kwisizukulwana Kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana.

Ufunda iilwimi ezintsha

Unokufunda iilwimi ezintsha ngaphandle kokuqonda oko. Ngomnqweno wokufuna ukunxibelelana nabanye, uya kuba nakho ukuziqhelanisa neelwimi phantse ungazi, nto leyo eya kukwenza ube nolawulo oluphucukileyo lolwimi lwelizwe obukhe watyelela kulo, okanye ubuncinci ... Uyakuwubona umzamo omkhulu oya kuba nawo -kodwa ngolonwabo- ukunxibelelana nabanye.

Unokubona nomlingo onxibelelana phakathi kwabantu xa kungekho lwimi luthethwayo olusebenzayo.... ulwimi lweempawu kunye nezimbo zomzimba zezona zilungileyo zokuqondana ... Nokuba ungahamba nencwadana yokubhala kunye nepeni, ungazoba oko ufuna ukukuhambisa! Baya kukuqonda ngokukhawuleza.

Nangona ufuna ukuba nolwazi, ungafunda isiNgesi kancinci ngaphambi kokuba uqale uhambo lwakho, kuba nokuba uyaphi, uyakuhlala ekhona umntu onokunxibelelana nawe ngesiNgesi. Nangona ungaphandle kwaye ungazazi iilwimi kwaye uzive isidingo sokufunda, unokuhlala ubhenela kwi Imfundo Kuqala, Inkampani enikezela izifundo zolwimi phesheya. Ke unokufunda ulwimi oludingayo.

Kukubumba njengomntu

Kodwa eyona nto ilunge kakhulu kukuba ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwihlabathi kuya kukunceda ukuba ube ngumntu. Uyakufumanisa abantu abaninzi, iinkcubeko ezininzi, iindlela ezininzi zokunxibelelana… ukuba ayizukunqanda ukuba ingqondo yakho iya kwanda kwaye nentliziyo yakho iyakutshintsha Uya kuba uyila njengomntu kwaye uyakuqonda indlela ubomi obahluke ngayo ngakumbi kunokuba ubucinga. Mhlawumbi uyaqonda ukuba ubomi bungcono kakhulu kwaye bumnandi ngakumbi, xa usazi iindawo ezininzi emhlabeni. Ngamava oya kuhamba nawo bonke ubomi bakho, kodwa iya kuba lulwazi kwaye nentliziyo enkulu kwaye ithobekile.

Uyakuthanda ukuhamba? Iyintoni ikona yehlabathi ongathanda ukuya kuyo? Okanye yeyiphi oyithandayo?