Ukwenza umsebenzi wokunyaniseka kwicala lam kuni, bafundi bethu, ndiza kuthi andazi kakuhle ukuba ndibhala eli nqaku ukuze ndikukholise kuqala, ndiziqinisekise okanye bobabini. Kwaye kukuba banokuthandabuza, uloyiko oluninzi xa usenza uhambo lodwa oko kunika ukungakhathali kunye nentlonipho. Ndiyalungisa kwaye ndiyayihlonipha phantse yonke imihla, ubuncinci ngokokude ndixhalabele, iphela ngokuthabatha kwaye "sukuhamba".
Kwaye wena? Ngaba uhamba wedwa rhoqo? Ndingavuya nangayiphi na indlela yokubeka izimvo kulo mbuzo kwaye ukuba kusemoyeni ukundityhalela phambili, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukwenza uhambo lwedwa, kungcono kakhulu ...
Oko kuthethiweyo, ndiye ndadibanisa inani le izizathu zokuhamba ndedwa okanye ndedwa; yam, yakho, kunye naye nabani na oyidinga kakhulu okanye ngaphezulu kunam. Nje ukuba ndifunde kufuneka nditsho ukuba bambalwa kwaye balunge kakhulu. Ndikushiya nabo!
Izizathu zokuhamba wedwa ubuncinci ebomini bakho
- Uya kuba nemvakalelo yenkululeko epheleleyo, engazange ive ngaphambili.
Ngoba? Kuba akufuneki uphendule kuye nabani na, nokuba akukho shedyuli, okanye ukutyelelwa, okanye nantoni na. Nguwe othatha isigqibo ngamaxesha akho, iindlela zakho, nokuba uvuka ngenye imini ngaphambili okanye kamva, njl. Uya kwenza nantoni na oyifunayo ngexesha elikholisa kakhulu.
- Uya kuloyisa uloyiko kunye nokungaqiniseki.
Sele sithethile kumhlathi wokuqala wale nqaku. Mamaxesha amaninzi loloyiko lwethu nokunganqabiseki okusibambe umva Ayisiyiyo kuphela xa uhamba wedwa kodwa naxa usenza into ekudala siyifuna kwaye ungoyiki nangasiphi na isizathu. Ukuhamba wedwa kuyayaphula loo mingcele ...
Ndicinga ukuba ndiyifundile le ngongoma, andifuni izizathu ezingakumbi ... Kodwa, siyaqhubeka!
- Ukuzazi nokuzithemba kuya kunyuswa.
Ukuba ndedwa siza kuba nexesha elininzi lokucinga: ukucinga ngobomi esibukhokeleyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, malunga nezithintelo ebesizoyisa kunye nezinye ezisenze sakhubeka, malunga nezilingo esihlangabezana nazo apha endleleni ezinokusenza siphulukane namandla ukuqhubeka nokuzama kodwa nokuzithemba.
Eli nqaku linxibelelene ngokusondeleyo nelangaphambili. Xa sibona ukuba siyakwazi ukuqala kwaye silugqibe uhambo sisodwa, ngaphandle koncedo, oluvela kwinkampani eyaziwayo, apho sikonwabele khona, safumanisa iindawo ezintsha kwaye siye saqhawuka, olo lwazi lomntu wethu kunye nokuzazi- ukuzithemba bonyuswa ngewaka.
- Siya kulonwabela "isizungu."
Abantu abaninzi bayoyika ukuba bodwa, ukuba wedwa, ... Abanye kungenxa yokuba abazi ukuba mabenze ntoni xa bedikiwe, abanye ngenxa "yeengxaki" ngaphambili, njalo njalo. Nokuba kungasiphi na isizathu, ukuhamba wedwa lixesha elilungileyo "lokuphinda ufumane" isizungu esoyikekayo kwaye uqonde ukuba akukubi njengoko kupeyintiwe.
Kukuba wedwa ngokupheleleyo xa Siza kuba nexesha lonke lehlabathi ukwenza nantoni na esiyifunayo, kuba akusayi kufuneka siziqhelanise neemfuno okanye "intuthuzelo" yomnye umntu esikwenye indawo.
- Uya kuphila kumava angenakulibaleka.
Bathi iintloko ezimbini zicinga ngakumbi kunenye, kwaye inyani yokuba uya kuya kukukhokelela ebomini iimeko ezingaphaya kokulindelekileyo nezingalindelekangaKuba ngekhe ubenayo enye intloko yokucinga ecaleni kwakho enokukunika "uncedo" ngamaxesha athile. Ezinye zisenokungabi mnandi ngokupheleleyo (njengokulahleka ngexesha elinikiweyo, ukungasifumani isakhiwo okanye ilitye lesikhumbuzo ofuna ukulindwendwela, njlnjl), kodwa abanye baya kuba zezi. ii-anecdotes ukuba wakuba ubuyile kuhambo uya kubakhumbula ngoncumo oluhle ebusweni bakho.
- Kuya kufuneka uzivumele ukhokelwe ziintandokazi zakho kunye nezinto ozikhethayo.
Xa siza kuhamba sihamba ngamaqela, soloko kufuneka siziqhelanise nezinto ezithandwa ngumntu wonke kunye nezinto azithandayo. Ndikunika umzekelo: umhlobo wakho uJuan ukhetha ukuhlala ehotele, ngelixa umhlobo wakho uLaura efuna indlu encinci embindini wendalo ... Kodwa, Ufunani? Ukuba uhamba wedwa, kuya kufuneka ukhathazeke kuphela malunga nento oyifunayo ngandlela zonke: uhlobo lwegastronomy, uhlobo lendawo yokuhlala, uhlobo lwendlela yokundwendwela (uncwadi, izikhumbuzo, indalo, njl.
- Shiya yonke into ngasemva!
Nqamula kuyo yonke into nakuwo wonke umntu: cima iselfowuni yakho, mamela ukuthula kwaye uvumele nje ukuba uqhutyelwe yinto ebuzwa ngumzimba wakho ngalo lonke ixesha. Yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuphumla kunye nokuqhawula indlela yesiqhelo ekoyikisayo nengcinezelayo. Yiza nekhamera ekhanyayo, incwadana yokubhala enosiba lokubonisa kunye nenye into encinci ... Ngamana umzuzu wokuphila kolo hambo unokukumitha kangangokuba unyanzele ukuba uphinde uzivuselele ngamandla ngakumbi kunye nokuzithemba.
Kukho izizathu ezi-7 zizonke ... Azikho ninzi, zimbalwa, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ziyimfuneko ngqo yokujongana noloyiko loloyiko solo. Kwaye wena? Ndikukholisile? Iyakuba yintoni indawo yakho elandelayo?
Ndihambe ndedwa kube kanye, kuba kwakamsinya emva kokuba ndiqalile ukuthandana neqabane lam kwaye sele sikunye kuhambo kunye. Kodwa ngokunyanisekileyo, yinto endiyincomayo kuwo wonke umntu. Ukuya eMadrid, apho wayengazange abe khona. Ndalala kwigumbi ekwabelwana ngalo namanye amantombazana aseFrance ayemhle kakhulu. Ndwendwela yonke into obucebe ukuyindwendwela, ngoxolo olugqithisileyo lokuba ungangxami okanye ucothe ... ngokwam nje isantya. Kwakhona, umakhulu wase-El Retiro wandibona ndinemaphu waza waqalisa ukundibalisela amabali ngeMadrid okwethutyana emva koko waya kulanda umzukulwana wakhe. Kwakukho nomhla apho imozulu yayintle ndaye ndagqibela ndilele engceni ixesha elingaphezulu kweyure, ndathi xa ndifuna njalo ndaphakama ndahamba. Ngokutya ke bendisitya xa ndilambe nyani nalapho ndibone esona sitya bendisifuna kakhulu.
Ndicinga ukuba ukuba uyathanda ukuhamba, ngokubanzi, ngaphandle kokwabelana ngehambo nabanye abantu, ubuncinci kube kanye kufuneka uhambe wedwa.