Eli nqaku linokuthathwa njengengcebiso kuye wonke umntu okanye uluhlu lwezizathu zokuhamba rhoqo ukuze ungalibali kwaye uzikhuthaze ngamnye kuthi ukuba ahambe rhoqo. Ndizibandakanya kuyo, ndihamba ngaphantsi kakhulu kunokuba ndingathanda. Kuthekani ukuba senza ibhanki yehagu kwaye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa sizityala eBali? Njani nge-India? Mhlawumbi iGrisi?
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Emva koko, sikushiya nabo bonke izizathu ukuba singaze silibale ukubamba inqwelomoya, uloliwe okanye imoto rhoqo kwaye yiya naphi na. Kuba yonke indawo inento entsha esinokusinika yona.
Isizathu 1: Zazi iinkcubeko ezahlukileyo kwezakho
Inkcubeko yethu, edibanisa zombini indlela yokuphila kunye namasiko ngokufanayo, sinokuthanda ngakumbi okanye ngaphantsi, kuxhomekeke kumzuzu esiphila kuwo, kuba yonke into inefuthe ... Inyaniso yokuhamba uye kwindawo eyahluke kakhulu kunaleyo inkcubeko yonke eyahlukileyo ayisiniki nje ulwazi olutsha lwehlabathi kodwa vula iingqondo zethu kumathuba amatsha, i izinto ezintsha sele sele izinto ezintsha zobomi bemihla ngemihla ukuba mhlawumbi besingazi kwa ngaphambili. Olu lwazi lusenza ngakumbi nyamezelana, ivule ngakumbi kwaye inolwazi ngakumbi malunga nenyani yokuba umhlaba uhlala kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zawo.
Ngale ndlela siza kufumanisa ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke into njengoko ibonisiwe kwimithombo yeendaba kwaye zininzi iimbono zenyani efanayo.
Isizathu 2: Ukugcina ijenali yokuhamba ubomi
Ngubani ongakumbi kwaye ngubani ongaphantsi obhalileyo (okanye ubuncinci, oqale) idayari yobomi. Kuyo sihlala sixela ngayo yonke into esiye sayifumana emini nosuku, yintoni ebisikhathazile okanye esikhathazayo, njl. Le dayari yobomi iphantse yahlala ijolise kuthi, okanye kwabo bantu basondeleyo kuthi nabathi ngandlela ithile babandakanyeke kuthi kwaye basiphembelele. Ewe, ukuhamba, ijenali yethu yokuhamba ngobomi ayizukuba sisityebi kuphela kodwa siya kuba nakho bhala phantsi ii-anecdotes namanye amava ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ukuphinda bafunde emva kweminyaka embalwa okanye bayishiye "njengeencwadi zokubhalela" inzala yethu yexesha elizayo.
Le dayari yokuhamba ubomi izakusenza siqonde ukuba butyebile kangakanani ubomi bethu kuyo yonke le minyaka ngokohambo esilwenzileyo.
Isizathu 3: dibana nabantu abatsha
Kwethu indawo yokuthuthuzela, Ukongeza kwintuthuzelo yethu yesiqhelo, kukwakho abo bantu sibaziyo ngonaphakade, abo bantu sisondele kubo emsebenzini, abahlobo besikolo esiphakamileyo, usapho, njl. Ukuba naba bantu ngeenxa zonke kuyasinceda ukuba sikwazi ukulawula ubomi bethu, kodwa awucingi ukuba baninzi kakhulu abantu ehlabathini ukuba bakwazi ukwandisa isangqa sabahlobo bethu?
Amava amahle onokuwathatha xa useluhambeni, ukongeza kokwazi indawo ekuthethwa ngayo, ngaba yenza abahlobo okanye abahlobo ohamba nabo Pha. Baza kukwazisa ngamabali endawo anokungafiki ezincwadini okanye awaziwayo, baya kuba nakho ukucebisa iindawo ezininzi ezintle kunalawo ahlala eza nezikhokelo zokuhamba kwaye ke, uya kuba nolunye uluvo lwehlabathi eyahlukileyo kule unayo okanye ubenayo ngaphambi kokuba uhambe.
Isizathu 4: Jonga indalo eyenziwe ngumntu okanye ngendalo
Ngaba ndim ndedwa okhangele phambili ekuboneni iTaj-Mahal eIndiya? Kuya kufuneka umtsalane ukukwazi ukuyibona kuphela iimitha ezimbalwa kude! Okanye iiphiramidi zase-Egypt, okanye i-Iguazu ewela, okanye amahlathi emvula aseAmazon, okanye okushiyekileyo e-Athene yamandulo, eRoma, njl.
Ewe kuyinyani, kwilizwe lethu kwaye ngakumbi, esixekweni sethu, sinezinto ezintle ezenziwe ngabantu okanye ngokwendalo, ukuba abantu bamanye amazwe bangafuna ukuzibona kwaye, enyanisweni, beza minyaka le ukuza kubabona ... Kodwa njengoko sinethamsanqa lokuzonwabela mihla le, kutheni singafuni ukubona ezinye iindawo ezintle kunye neesayithi emhlabeni?
Ukuba esi sesona sizathu siphambili sokuhamba kwakho, ungalibali ikhamera yekrelekrele ...
Isizathu 5: Amava okuhamba ngokwawo
Isizathu sokugqibela esikunika sona, sinokukunika uninzi ngakumbi kodwa ngekhe sigqibe, seso phila amava okuhamba ngokwakho. Sele kwesi sizathu kufanelekile ukuba sibe nathi.
Umntu ulangazelela ukuba nemali, kwaye njengomgaqo jikelele (ngelishwa), kukuthenga izinto kunye nezinto ezinengcinga engeyonyani yokuba baya kusinika ulonwabo (indlu enkulu, imoto eqaqambileyo kunye nemodeli yamva nje, iimpahla zefashoni, njl. .). Sincoma ukuba ugcine, ewe, ... Gcina imali, kuba ngelishwa, iindleko zokuhamba kwaye yinyani leyo esingenakukwazi ukuyitshintsha (nangona namhlanje kukho iindlela ezimbalwa indleko ephantsi ukungachithi imali eninzi kuhambo lwethu), kwaye ngemali oyigcinileyo ungenzi enye into ngaphandle kohambo. Ukuhamba wedwa, nabahlobo bakho, nosapho lwakho, kunye neqabane lakho, kodwa hamba! Ngawona mava makhulu kwaye angcono onokuzinika wona. Uhambo lushiya iinkumbulo emphefumlweni nasentliziyweni ... Izinto ziyawohloka kwaye zithatha indawo kuphela ...
Siyathemba ukuba siqinisekile okanye sikukhuthazile ukuba uhambe kancinci, ukuze wenze eli phupha kudala ulilangazelela… Thatha isuthikheyisi, izinto ezine eziyimfuneko kwaye wonwabele uhambo. Yeyona ngcebiso ilungileyo sinokukunika yona.